A Relationship must be based on love, respect , deep intimacy , soul maturity and communication, any relationship depending on personality and outer looks will not stay for long time, If we love someone who is beautiful or successful , that is not love , but just an illusions, love is about acceptance and devotion. Yes , they are a lot of gold diggers who prefer a rich man , and they are a lot of stupid rich man who chase beauty only , forgetting that a woman is not only a pretty body , but she has a soul and consciousness. I am single , I would love to meet a man who can touch my soul and heart, I dont mind how much he is earning , but I do mind that he loves me unconditionally and inspires me to grow and be the best version of myself The feminine is about love , joy and inspiration , that is what a man longs to find in a woman , to find his inner joy in her soulful eyes.
Yes sex is beautiful , but only when it is mixed with love.. Any man deserves a woman who loves him truly and who inspires him to be great and magnificent, and any woman deserves a man who loves her unconditionally and who stand always by her side. In the end happiness is an inside job , that our purpose in life , is to be happy and share our happy self with others.
Sam- I usually love your blog, but this is sexist click bait- I hope this was written to be a joke. The comments in this thread are very depressing and really highlight how little many women value their own worth. I have my bachelors from a state school no multiple degrees , am a daughter of immigrants and got to where I am by hard work and hustle.
To each her own. Your living situation is not the desired norm. As long as men and women are mostly different, we can never be truly equal. Not a good or bad thing, thats just how it is. After a divorce, I went hunting again. For me, just an above average looking guy, I was afraid to marry the prom queen. I had a good idea of what I could manage before I had money and tried to stay in that range. That means at least k in income. Yes, her life is better with me, but at k, you have most of the luxuries in life. I figured no one is going to spend their life with someone just to upgrade their vacations a little.
So I guess what you leave out is that men smart enough to earn a lot are also smart enough not to get played. Its not even close, and its very scary because it is usually a crime, and disease still sometimes gets transmitted. Talented, maybe: think actors, musicians, athletes etc, but not smart.
I like this POV. So where would you recommend a 23 year old hang out on weekends? I like nice things way too much. If someone could love you as well as God loves you that would be wonderful and refreshing to meet someone who loves God the same way you do that makes love more pure and untainted by the others who are seeking love and money and not really loving that person for who they truly are besides their wealthwhich is really sad how people only see the wrong thing in a relationship!
Stupid articles like these in the 21st century, makes me wanna bang my head. Make your own money you stupid women who look for love based off on financial security and status. I hope your breed of people die out soon. I know. I hope they die out soon too.
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And they can take those men who look for love based off of looks and sex with them. If only humanity can bypass all the surface stuff and tap into the tender, unselfish and unconditional care for one another, it will be better. But, not in a shack or on a mat on the floor. However, it not a good thing to devalue a human being to the size of a bucket of coins or a great pair of legs either. Well, Gender Equality, not every woman wants to toil or be fat and ugly like a worthless feminist.
I will have freedom in the afternoon when I cook and clean and satisfy my man who in turn will provide for me. Comments like this come from people who are insecure, seething with resentment, and fearful. Obviously feminists threaten you terribly. It obviously burns you up. I would rather be a person that work hard to feed myself and my cats than to be a pussy vibrator to the man who needs fucks all the time :. Desperation and insecurity,of any kind, will, naturally seeks control and validation. Desperate and insecure people attract desperate and insecure people who seek to control them in order to validate themselves.
Lastly, my 7 fig earning boss told me he never got the appeal of a woman who could cook. Food comes from stores. Who cares? Two beautiful sons who they love to death, and a life most would kill for. Not everyone has lived privileged lives where they are given every opportunity to succeed financially and protected from others doing psychological, physical, or emotional damage to them.
So only a privileged elite should engage in any form of relationship, since they are the only ones who were afforded sheltered lives?
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What ever happened to personal initiative to obtain what one desires? You can work hard to get rich, or you can find someone amazing who is already rich. You can drastically leapfrog generations of slog by finding that perfect someone.
To marry a rich man is one thing! But to keep it going is another story! Yes he can afford what ever you like in life, but does he feel he is appreciated! There is a big difference between give and take! Can you cook a nice meal so he can be appreciated!
Are you a person that can calm him down if he had a terrible day! Are you prepared to give him his own space! So having a rich man is one thing, but to keep it going is another! Nice things in life is fantastic, but is it appreciated by the good heart that is giving it? It will last only for so long then you back to square one! I have read many of the comments here. I am a psychology major, who dares to dream. I went through a divorce that ended due to my ex husband cheating multiple times.
I have helped many throughout my healing process when it comes to relationship advise. Money is material. It can be replaced. But your soul mate, the one you are destined to be with is irreplaceable. Your soul mate is your best friend, the one who listens to you, cares for you when you well and sick, the one you can laugh with, create memories, the one who will hold you, take time out of their day to cherish you, adore you, love you for you, not your title, or how much you make, the one who completes you mentally, physically, and spiritually.
I am a single woman that knows what I want, and will not settle for anything less. I have been through many challenges in life, but through my challenges, have discovered who I am, how I can help others, and grow. I was married for eight long years, as I settled for what I thought I deserved and stayed in an unhealthy relationship.
Since the year I left that behind , I was able to complete a degree in psychology with a very high GPA, have a current 4. I am currently pursuing a degree in nursing. Even through I am in some school debt, I have allowed nothing to stand in my way of success. FEAR is a huge factor, even in relationships.
I dare to dream, so I challenge each of you to find who you are before you find your mate, know what you want, and never settle for less. Remember life can be fun, full of endless memories, challenges come with it as well, and who you have standing next to you will help you discover your dreams and challenges and help you accomplish them if you have your soul mate. Money will come with time, it can be replaced, but again your soul mate cannot. Your soul mate needs to complete you! Money itself cannot complete you! Just some food for thought.
Hi aleisha, how to find out who we are?
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And how to find out what type of soul mate is suitable for us? Get to know yourself…spend time alone by yourself.. Ask your self questions…find inner meaning …. What this date or dates ok, boring, or I cant wait to see this person again…was there meat to the conversation? Or was it just plane and simple conversation?